I experienced quite variety of reactions when I told people
I was going to Ghana. I was expecting that; therefore, I didn’t actually tell
anybody about it until I had received the travel grant and signed the work
contract. Some were really excited, some were confused and immediately asked
why on earth I would like to go to Ghana, and then there were people who
started telling me how dangerous it is and that if I reeeeeaally go I have to
be very careful. And, FYI, these people had never been to Ghana, or actually
anywhere in Africa. I got loads of travel and safety tips from people who,
sorry to be blatant, had no idea what they were talking about. Luckily,
majority of the reactions I encountered were positive!
I understand that unknown is scary, and that it is normal to be worried about
your loved ones. But I also find it very annoying when people let stereotypes
affect their worldview so strongly.
Country in Africa must be dangerous, like this quite random person told me, that
Ghana is extremely dangerous place to be. I asked this person to tell me one
fact about Ghana. Got silence as response. This person didn’t even know the
capital of Ghana, or whereabouts Ghana is in Africa. But this person was 100%
sure that Ghana is dangerous.
I dare to claim that I have been to more dangerous places than Ghana. At least,
I have travelled to places where I have (usually by accident) ended up in very
dodgy areas I should not have gone to. But those are stories for some other
time. The thing is, that basically any country can be dangerous if the person
travelling in that specific country is not equipped with common sense and knowledge
about the country and its different areas. So, as simple as that, figure out
some basic facts and tips before going, and be sensible. Like, figure out where to go, where not to
go, where one can go but should be a bit more cautious at, where you shouldn’t
go after dark, where you shouldn’t go during the weekend, how to behave, how to
handle different situations in different cultures, how to talk to people and
how to dress and so on.
“Is there something specific one should pay more attention to – lots of pocket
pickers in some area, or some particular way scammers try to lure tourists in
difficult situations? This bar has dodgy reputation, maybe shouldn’t go there?
This is reliable taxi company, use that one.” You know, things like that. Very
simple facts that can easily be found.
Of course, things can still happen – no matter how prepared one is, things may
and most probably will go wrong (at some level) at some point. But this can
happen anywhere, even in the countries that are perceived to be “very safe to
travel to”.
I guess my point is, that it is frustrating when people don’t even try to find out actual information about things, but just assume something and declare these assumptions as a fact. If you have a smartphone and internet connection, it does not take long to google a bit about country, and one can learn lots in few minutes. Or by just asking around, by being open-minded. Don’t assume, rather ask!
I have been in Ghana for over a month now (EEEK! Time is
going too fast), and I have felt safe here. I have learned what to do, what not
to do and where obroni (white) girl can go and when. If I go out later in the night, I don’t go
alone, and if I’m travelling home from my weekend trips, I leave early enough
so that I’m home before it’s pitch black out there. Sun sets around 6pm, so for
example if I’m coming home from a trip on Sunday, I aim to be at home latest
around 6.30pm.
People here are very helpful, and as obroni I stand out in the crowd quite
clearly. This is good, but also sometimes slightly negative thing. Good, since
everybody’s assuming I have no idea where to go, which makes my life easy.
People are always pointing out which trotro goes where, taxi’s and trotros are
stopping and asking whether I need a ride or not, people offer to walk me to my
destination so that I find the right taxi station, restaurant, hotel and so on.
Naturally, some of these people have ulterior motives, and they want for
example money, my number, address and marry me. Actually, I haven’t been asked
for money that often, maybe once or twice.
But, a lot of men come to talk to me, very quickly either asking for my number
and my address or whether I could marry them or not. That’s why I wear a
wedding ring here (so if you see me wearing it, I am not engaged or married
FYI). It really helps a lot.
I mean, sometimes it’s quite funny when people come to ask you to give your
number/marry them. Like the other day, I was coming back home from Busua, and I
was sitting in a trotro waiting for it to fill up. One older man came to talk
to me, saying that his friend, very young-looking boy, was too shy to ask me
for my number so he was asking for him. Everybody in the trotro was following
this situation, and when I lifted my left hand and showed the ring, they all
went “aww nooo, obroni is married!”. Even the trotro driver was very
disappointed. But it was somehow so funny situation, like a soap opera scene
with lots of eyes following how it develops, and when they realized that “I’m
married”, it was mix of disappointment and amusement - we all had a good laugh. Also, a new man
entered the trotro at some point of the journey and immediately commented
something about me and how obroni should marry the young boy, but before I had
chance to answer, the driver already shook his head and laughed that
unfortunately this obroni is married. The man was laughing and asking, if I’m
sure I have a good husband and don’t want to change him for the young boy,
since “Ghanaian men are really good husbands”.
Anyway, so far I have got the feeling that Ghana is safe
country to be and travel at. For example, I have had no issues when traveling
somewhere alone. You just must know what you are doing and where you are going,
and make sure not to travel (at least not alone) at night-time.